How to be a Confident Lady
Steps to being confident
I, like most women, am too hard on myself and I know it! I have found that these few strategies have really helped bring my confidence up. When you love yourself you are happier, healthier, and overall more attractive!
#1 Keep company that will continually uplift you.
Friends and family will be the ones who influence your perspective the most. This is why “Birds of a feather, flock together.” Choose friends that not only compliment you and speak kinds words but who also have confidence in themselves. Confidece is contagious and it is an admirable trait. Be Confident, Be Attractive.
#2 Pamper yourself and always be well manicured.
A woman who takes care of herself is a woman who demands respect. Paint your toes! Don’t just paint them but LOVE the color you choose. Take a bubble bath with a LUSH bathbomb even add rosepetals for a kick (LUSH-Oatmeal infused moisture bomb shown) Spend a little extra time in the mornings primping before you leave the house. You don’t need more make-up just a little effort. Taking the extra time in getting ready will boost your self confidence throughout the day.
#3 A Friendly Bra is the key to your “best chest”
Sometimes breast confidence is hard. We as women should be proud of our body no matter where we are or progressing to. In my opinion the key to being happy with your breasts is to have a “friendly bra”. Get sized, get a bra that tells you that you are adequate and lovely by filling it out perfectly. It doesn’t hurt if it is lined with lace or made in France either.P.S. My personal advice would be to stay away from push ups as well they tend to tell you that you need more lift to look good that isn’t that friendly.
#4 Heels can add confidence as fast as they add height.
Next time you visit the supermarket or somewhere more casual throw on your heels and ditch the flats. Heels give an importace to a woman that she would not otherwise feel. When those heels click on the tile floor heads will turn and you WILL feel your confidence rise.
#5 Tan it Up.
CAUTION: This is a completely temporary confidence boost.
Although this is not the best way to raise self esteem it does give an immediate confidence in your body. If you’re low and need an boost quickly go ahead and use my miraculous tan lotion of choice. Banana Boat- Summer color Dark is the very best there is and for under $10 and within 5 hours you’ll look sunkissed and not orange or streaky! I will post a tutorial for application soon but for now…
Day before if possible…
-Apply normal lotion the day of…
-Apply thick coat of lotion all over (face too), lotion will usually appear streaky on application not on removal after setting.
-Make sure not to miss a spot
-Wipe fingers esp. around nails
-pat wrists and ankles to take off just a bit of lotion on area
-LET DRY FOR 4-5 HOURS FOR OPTIMAL COLOR. It will not be too dark, color lightens after showering.
TADA you are sunkissed and glowing! Thus is great for any event or photo session.